The Temperaments Inside The society around us

In this article we will discuss something we have not given the importance it has and therefore how it affects and how we are affected, we are talking about the temperament, I start asking you, did you know that temperament? Do you know that temperament has people around you? Do you know how to treat it according to the temperament they have?, I know it is very difficult to explain in few words all that I want to express, but I'll try to be very useful in explain. I'll start by telling you that temperament is the excitability of the heart with a soul is inclined to a certain feel or to desire and there are 4 types of temperaments, which are: choleric, sanguine, melancholic and phlegmatic. Now try to discover that temperament you. Personally, I think we all have a little of each one of them. Knowing the temperament of our neighbors come to understand better, more fairly treat and cope with more patience. These are advantages for social life, which we can never fully appreciate. If we know our own temperament, we must begin to answer these questions What offenses generally accepted grudgingly and with difficulty? Do you usually keep them inside me?

- The case of having to answer: Usually I can not forget offenses, I keep to myself, her memory renews my excitement, I keep long bad mood for several days and even for weeks trying to avoid the word and the meeting of the person who offended me - this is our case, we are then certain to be either angry or melancholic. We can instead say: I do not hold a grudge, or show angry with others for a long time I can not but love them, even though the offense, and if I wanted to show bad temper and bad side, I can not do more than one or two hours, - in this case are blood or phlegmatic. Convinced of being angry or melancholic, sigámonos wondering: Am I hard and fast affecting the offense? Do you hinted in my words and ways? Do I feel a strong impulse to challenge and reply immediately offensive? Or am I able to stay outwardly calm, while boiling inside? Do I embarrass, disrupt and deter offenses so, I can not find a suitable word or the spirit necessary to answer, so resigned myself to silence? Not often happens to me not to feel offended at the time of the offense to fall a few hours later or the next day in an extreme state of exhaustion?

- If our answer to the first set of questions is yes, we are angry, and if the latter, are melancholy. - Have we reached the conviction that blood or phlegmatic?, We engage ourselves the following questioning: Does receiving an offense, angered me instantly turn on and wanting to act in haste? Or I can keep quiet? In the first case we are blood in the second, phlegmatic. After you've answered these questions now will give you a short summary that you recognize your temperament.

The feeling angry and excited at large, it looks ordinary, but aspires to the great and outstanding, is very capricious, thinks he always right, wants to have the last word to the others is foolish, weak, clumsy and dull, at least compared yours is ambitious and bossy, is deeply hurt when he is embarrassed and humiliated. No one can hurt so painfully with fewer words than a choleric. The greatest insult ever forget them, is alien to tender and affectionate feelings and hates delicate demonstrations of love and care that are often born of particular friendships. Cholera can remain indifferent and insensitive to others' pain and if he calls his own aggrandizement, not hesitate to ruthlessly trample others enjoy happiness. The choleric may with great powers be useful to the family, those around him, the community and the state. So was born to be boss and tireless organizer. In the education of angry not get carried away by anger, saying, "Let's see if I break the stubbornness of this man." Instead, you have to stay calm and wait for the learner is also calm, then he may speak in these terms: "Be sensible and be driving so they can correct their mistakes and ennobled the good in you."

The blood is inconstant in its mood, quickly goes from laughter to crying and vice versa, is unstable in their opinions, tenaciously defended today that challenged a week ago, not readily concentrated within, but will more like his attention to external things, the interest shown in taking the blood by the beauty of the clothes, the house, elegant shape of the deal with others, everything has to see and hear and all he has to talk. As optimism knows no difficulties, but always trust the success. As so easily excited passions of the blood, do not penetrate deep into your soul and look like a straw fire that produces a loud crackle when , and soon sinks into itself. Experience an almost childish joy itself, the outside of her dress and her work, you look good wins in the mirror or glass doors and windows. When he is happy to be praised, and is, therefore, very addicted to the adulation. Through praise and flattery stops easily induce even more foolish and the most shameful sins.

Easily be absorbed by externalities and their susceptibility to particular friends, the blood has a hard time being impartial and fair. The blood does not love solitude but for the company and conversation of men. The judgments of the sanguine temperament are often false, either because they find out more than the surface of things, or see the difficulties of the same, and because partial sample of sympathy in his affections. The blood is unstable in the good. As willingly surrender to the direction of others, are very easily seduced, into the hands of wicked men and light. The blood was quickly excited by the good, but his enthusiasm soon languishes.

The soul of melancholy weakly excited by external influences and their reaction, if it reacts, it is also weak. But such excitement, but always weak, lingers long in the soul, has a heart full of rich and tender affections, which somehow feels what you think. Eventually, the melancholic does not feel good in the company of men, prefer silence and solitude, always considers its most things in black and adverse, in the depths of his heart is continually some gentle melancholy, some "internal mourn" hardly comes to strangers, or enter into conversation with strangers. From inside out with great reserve, and more often than not only those who have more confidence when starting a job, running an errand unpleasant, on entering an unusual spot, shows the melancholy discouragement and timidity. In his thinking has to consider everything carefully and seriously consider it, until forming his discreet, does not aspire to honors, has, however, some afraid to show in public and accepting praise. It is here that I know is very difficult to deal with melancholy, for by its peculiarities not seen in its right point, nor know how to deal with success.

When the melancholy feel this becomes even more serious and lonely. The melancholic has few friends, because there are many who understand him and those who enjoy their confidence.

Finally we have the Phlegmatic, their impressions cause only a weak excitation of the phlegmatic soul, if in any way affect it. The reaction is also weak, if it fails completely. The prints will soon disappear. The phlegmatic is not concerned mostly about what happens outside of it, shows little appetite for work, gives, however, much preferred to rest. All walks and it unfolds very quietly. The good qualities that has the phlegmatic is that it works slowly, but regularly, so you do not have to think hard about their work, and not easily provoked by insults, failures or infirmity. Stay calm, phlegmatic, discreet and have a trial practical and sober. It knows no greater passions, or major requirements for life.

Within the bad qualities is that he's very prone to rest, eating and drinking, besides being lazy (dull) and negligent in fulfilling their obligations.

Knowing the temperament types more fairly treat our neighbor. In an angry conquer it quietly exposing the reasons, the words harsh and imperious mortify him, so obstinate and irritating to the extreme. The melancholic and taciturn timid becomes a harsh word or a look suspicious, more attentive treatment we will see him since, trusting and faithful. In the words of a well can one trust angry, but not the promises of a more formal blood. Ignoring, then, the temper of our neighbor our treatment will result in damage without justice, of self and others. Cope with more patience for our neighbor. Knowing our temperament, we will be more humble, and we will convince us, that the good in us is not a virtue but a result of both our natural and our temperament.